Tuesday, 29 May 2012

Absent fathers.







I wonder how my life would have been if I have/had recieve the same love from my father as my mother. I totally don't understand "black man", I am am sure other racial groups know; infact they do know how to take care of their own daughters and sons weather they are rich or poor. Most black man including my own father, think that what they need is money in order to prove or become a good father. According to my books thats nonses: love has nothing to do with money!. Black brother please go back to wherever you have been and see/check if you haven't left anything that belongs to you behind... That child needs you- to them money does not mean anything, its only love that matters.
My father was never there for me, sometimes I consaul myself and say that I don't care about him because its obvious that he doesn't care about me either, but deep down I know that the are moments where I feel that I really need his love and presences. My mother has always been there for me through rough and difficult times, tried to fill that gap but t'wasn't enough. However, deep down I know any mother would never live their little one's behind no metter what the circumstances are.

To all the caring mother I have much respect and love for them, keep on making us your children as happy as ever, even more than the presence of the father,happiness and joy and embrace those homes with warmth, care and lots of love. And to all loving Dads much love to you to!!

1 comment:

  1. Most black people grow up with out their fathers and become very successful and important people in our communities. Veliswa you are not alone, there are millions of South Africans today who where raised by single parents.

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