Tuesday, 19 June 2012

homosexuality in South Africa-Research.

homosexuality v/s Heterosexuality..




I am conducting a Research based on the topic: Homosexuality, it is a MAPS(Mastering Academic Professional Studies) research assignment. I will be using a Quantitative research method-questionnaires and surveys. At the back of my mind I've these questions that I am about to find out within the next 3-4 weeks or so from now.
1.What do people understand by the term Homosexuality?
2.Is homosexual a medical condition or psychatric problem?
3.What causes same attraction?
4.How does one determine if the practise of homosexuality is right or wrong?
5.What are peoples views on Gay/Lesbian Adoption, Family issues (parenting skills/techniques)?

Scary/amazing fact, depends on who you deliver the information to. I find it interesting though, it is not everyday where you attend "different" marriages, by different, I am referring to different kinds of marriage's namely: mixed racial marriages,same sex marriages (homosexual) and the "normal" heterosexuality marriage as most people know it. I find on stats goggle that more than 3,000 same-sex couples have been married in South Africa with about half of those couples including at least one foreigner (Dan Levin. July, 27, 2010).

The thing is people this days do not get married at all. Chances are that if one do get married its either the marriage won't last (Kim Kaddish-lasted 72days in hers) (our very own South African-Durban talented DJ Tira lasted 3Monts or so) or that the couple got married for all the wrong reasons and end up not lasting for long. Therefore, the most frequently asked question about homosexual is that-Is homosexual marriage v/s heterosexual marriage, true love?
homosexuality v/s Heterosexuality..




Scary/amazing fact, depends on who you deliver the information to. I find it interesting though, it is not everyday where you attend "different" marriages, by different, I am referring to different kinds of marriage's namely: mixed racial marriages,same sex marries (homosexual) and the "normal" heterosexuality marriage. I find on stats goggle that more than 3,000 same-sex couples have been married in South Africa with about half of those couples including at least one foreigner (Dan Levin. July, 27, 2010).

The thing is people this days do not get married at all. Chances are that if one do get married its either the marriage won't last (Kim Kaddish-lasted 72days in hers) (our very own South African-Durban talented DJ Tira lasted 3Monts or so) or that


I have no idea, but one thing for sure, relationship separations, divorces is more popular in heterosexual marriages as far as my research is concerned or maybe it is because the aren't that many homosexuals in South Africa ac compare to other states such as America....I don't know.

Monday, 18 June 2012

Fathers Day Dedication







Oh yes! I decided yesterday that I wasn't going to say a word about fathers day, just because my father abandoned me-Lol...guess what I woke up with a BIG smile thinking that it was fathers day and stopped being jelous. I started by sending my step-dad a sweet and short message reminding him of how wonderful and important he is in my life.The next text I sent to one of the few impotant males in my life...my auncle's former friend who died few years ago he just reminds me of him and how close we were me and him (uncle Zanethemba Mzobotshi).
To all the Loving and caring Dads Happy be-lated fathers day.I am really proud of those fathers who take care of their children and wives- A real dad never cheat on his wife nor children, always there to support and guide children.(Otata abangcwela abalala ekhaya, batye ekhaya, konke ekhaya bayakuthola- ababhekebheki. I really like that song by Mam' Nobathembu on Joyous Celebration 16 if Am not miskaken).

Monday, 4 June 2012

Miss my home town




Today I woke up missing my home town.....

Mount frere a small, underdeveloped town in the Eastern Cape.The town is situated between Kokstad and Mthatha along the N2 road about 100 km north east of Umthatha.




I know there is not much interesting about it, but to me it special as well as interesting because my family is there. I miss my grandmother- Ukhulu (Mkhuluse)-my best friend ever!!

There my people hustling...we call them onokhowu (people running small businesses-sell fruit and vegies in there street to make living.)







 There is one major street in Mount Frere and it is the Main street on the N2 road,this street has many restaurants, shops and many other public services including the Police Station, Post Office, Municipal offices and the newly built Madzikane Ka Zulu Memorial Hospital. It is surrounded by many rural village including Dangwana, Kumahahane, Mbondleni, Mtwana, Mtshazi, Mvuzi, Toleni, Qoqa and many others.



Mtshazi is where I am from under the leadership of mam'nkosi( woman traditional leader) Nozolile Makaula. Yippi! we are in advance eMtshazi- our leader is a woman...where else can you find that? Kwazulu...NEVER!! in the North West maybe still under negotiation process.