Absent fathers.

I wonder how my life would have been if I have/had recieve the same love from my father as my mother. I totally don't understand "black man", I am am sure other racial groups know; infact they do know how to take care of their own daughters and sons weather they are rich or poor. Most black man including my own father, think that what they need is money in order to prove or become a good father. According to my books thats nonses: love has nothing to do with money!. Black brother please go back to wherever you have been and see/check if you haven't left anything that belongs to you behind... That child needs you- to them money does not mean anything, its only love that matters.
My father was never there for me, sometimes I consaul myself and say that I don't care about him because its obvious that he doesn't care about me either, but deep down I know that the are moments where I feel that I really need his love and presences. My mother has always been there for me through rough and difficult times, tried to fill that gap but t'wasn't enough. However, deep down I know any mother would never live their little one's behind no metter what the circumstances are.

To all the caring mother I have much respect and love for them, keep on making us your children as happy as ever, even more than the presence of the father,happiness and joy and embrace those homes with warmth, care and lots of love. And to all loving Dads much love to you to!!

Examination stress!!!!!!

I don't know how many exams I've written exams in my school years, but it seem I can't get used to this very "normal feeling" of getting nervous every time. But then it is normal, and it is usually belived that if you are nervous or show any reaction/response against something it means that you are aware of youe surroundings and can do something better in return to change or improve the situation. For me being nervous during exams it can only means a few things such as: Preparing very well and have self-confident.

During my high school years I've learned few important ways that can help me to reduce or avoid stress during exams. My former Life Orentation teacher once said that, "people who are stressing,concered or get worried  over something,it sipmly means that they care or have evey possible abilities to solve what is stressin them. She further stated that stress is not always such a bad thing, stress normally increases our creativity in terms of solving problems and encourages our productivity, she reffered this type of stress as positive stress". Therefore, from my L.O teacher's views about stress I've learned and discovered different ways in which I can better manage Exam stress or any other type of stress.

Tips on how to manage stress during exams:

• Prepare well ahead before exam period
• Be organised
• Plan personal timetable
• Revise what has been done in class durint the course of the year in time.

Get enough rest!

Reflection on the Computer skills for teachers-RVO

face of dissapointmrnt.

This is the image I head after checking my grades, I've failed my very first RVO test, I got 32.48% like seriously!!!! But how? I've got no idea I thought the test was very easy and simple and I guess I didn't prepare well enough; then again the test was multiple choice questions! dear! I totally hate multiple choice questions... very soon I will be a teacher and I shall never set such questions for my students because even though it is a multiple choice sometimes I just feel that I don't have much choice or I have a "bad" choice. I'm not want to depress my stoudents especially if there is a negative marking policy.I exercised the Golden trick but it seemed not to be working for me.

For next test I recommand that the person who set the test must use less images where we will ve required to click on the coresponding answer, it just get too confusing for most of us, especially if we dealing with multiple choice questions. I feel that we were not given opportunity to pass the test.

I aint going to give up, I will try and work much harder and prepare well enough for next test-which is a re-write test.